tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post8643847247121644707..comments2024-03-26T04:57:50.203-07:00Comments on Stephanie Snowe: The Blog!: Things I wish I had the guts to say outloud.Stephhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10413516850782368606noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-71405846154261314772011-03-08T16:16:42.362-08:002011-03-08T16:16:42.362-08:00In your last post, you left a link to a post of yo...In your last post, you left a link to a post of yours from 2008. I remember reading it and weeping. Because my husband and I are also one hell of a family. And I was sad for the children that wouldn't get to have us as parents. I lost a baby - our only baby - last summer. And when I read your post...I have no words, my sweet friend. No words.<br /><br />I'm afraid, too. The other day I was a weepy mess in my kitchen and the only words I could get out to my husband is that I was scared. Of so many things. <br /><br />I don't know everything you are going through. But what I do know is that I have read you for a long time and I have always admired your bravery and your candor and your ability to put words to feelings I didn't even know I have.<br /><br />You have a lot of people out here that haven't met you that want the best for you. That pray for you. That laugh when you type "asshat."<br /><br />I wish you peace. Sooner than later. Knowing that it will come in His time.krissiehttp://www.questionsfordessert.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-17568801726990810922011-03-07T18:26:06.939-08:002011-03-07T18:26:06.939-08:00In regards to being afraid of the hurt.... Sometim...In regards to being afraid of the hurt.... Sometimes we have to go through the pain to heal, and to appreciate the healing.<br /><br />And sometimes, it's really just the unknown we fear. Once you're in it, you find it's not nearly as scary as you thought it would be.Meredithnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-92160245283065340262011-03-07T16:10:51.328-08:002011-03-07T16:10:51.328-08:00A lot of people suck. Even, unfortunately sometim...A lot of people suck. Even, unfortunately sometimes, our parents, who just don't get it, and say precisely the wrong things. My mother said something similarly stupid when I lost my pregancies ... I wish I could offer you something more than a hug, and a willing ear.Justine Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14190295175501659469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-88489782206947163822011-03-07T15:24:56.500-08:002011-03-07T15:24:56.500-08:00sending you hugs because words will never be enoug...sending you hugs because words will never be enough ((♥HUGS♥))diane renehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14278917038491110157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-72608546306464183802011-03-07T14:23:50.976-08:002011-03-07T14:23:50.976-08:00Oh, hon. I wish you could say those things, too. I...Oh, hon. I wish you could say those things, too. I wish that I could say them as well.<br /><br />Much love.Coal Miner's Granddaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320077738770745217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-50582629012992086812011-03-07T12:48:28.189-08:002011-03-07T12:48:28.189-08:00I doubt that I've ever commented because I'...I doubt that I've ever commented because I'm a total chicken shit, but I can relate to so much of what you're going through right now. I wish I could reach right through my computer and give you a huge hug because it really sounds like you need at least one. <br /><br />Even though I've never met you, I think you're super duper brave for putting it all out there. You sound like a really freaking awesome lady who I have admired for a long time & "strong" doesn't even begin to describe you. I want to be you when I grow up... to be as open with my daughters as you are with your kids... to be as honest about my life (both the great & the shitty) as you are... to be honest with myself... to write as eloquently as you do... to remember that the shitty parts of life have made me who I am now... to be proud of the person I've become. <br /><br />Bottom line... Infertililty sucks. Miscarriages suck harder. I'm just so sorry for your loss.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07196289107898806877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-71924133001229335312011-03-07T12:44:38.971-08:002011-03-07T12:44:38.971-08:00I think you are fabulous. Honestly. Every time I s...I think you are fabulous. Honestly. Every time I see you post on FB or your blog, I wish we were real life friends because honestly- you are fantastic. <br /><br />I loved this post in the the way that one loves a sad, heart wrenching moment...Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09505420894898738638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-26070287008054655512011-03-07T12:32:44.977-08:002011-03-07T12:32:44.977-08:00I'm sorry. People can be so sucky.I'm sorry. People can be so sucky.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04474928571871603804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-82285621637943018582011-03-07T12:26:25.188-08:002011-03-07T12:26:25.188-08:00Some people don't get it. "Oh, I have thi...Some people don't get it. "Oh, I have this 'awful' thing going on too;" or, "I went through that too and no one helped me," don't help. I will keep sending healing thoughts your way and am still sorry to hear about your loss!Jenskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05368202166540468533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-84860782155535770662011-03-07T12:03:40.846-08:002011-03-07T12:03:40.846-08:00I'm sorry you're hurting.I'm sorry you're hurting.Zephyrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09194686635071552460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-65951073260356515132011-03-07T11:39:22.513-08:002011-03-07T11:39:22.513-08:00My heart is sad reading this. I hate that you are ...My heart is sad reading this. I hate that you are in so much pain and so many people cause you so much pain. I love you and miss you and wish I could wave a magic wand or at least throw a magic brick. <3Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12377565556936721269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-52707238940092305262011-03-07T11:28:11.593-08:002011-03-07T11:28:11.593-08:00(((((((steffus)))))))(((((((steffus)))))))Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01919038469966255340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-40068384687646606642011-03-07T11:24:11.445-08:002011-03-07T11:24:11.445-08:00It took serious guts just to write this, nevermind...It took serious guts just to write this, nevermind saying these things out loud. Stay strong, Stephanie!Boriquahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10554302157355866015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-64421083547452085942011-03-07T11:17:22.339-08:002011-03-07T11:17:22.339-08:00I don't know what's going on, but it does ...I don't know what's going on, but it does not sound fun.<br /><br />I'm so sorry about the miscarriage. Everything about miscarriage is dreadful, and the layers keep being revealed as you go, and that's awful too.<br /><br />Sending a hug today. love, Valvalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11225253082963245064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4839901864916285975.post-22382238320437101392011-03-07T11:12:34.144-08:002011-03-07T11:12:34.144-08:00I love you.I love you.frannienoreply@blogger.com